When do we get out of balance ?

The answer is quite simple, it is because either we are stressed or overthinking but thats not the reality. In fact, we are stressed or over-emotional because we have already lost our balance ! Once we are stressed or emotionally volatile we tend to find ways to fix the issue which caused our swing, but thats not a permanent solution. Fixing the top iceberg will not make the ship move safe. The problem is with the self. Lets explore the prime reasons contributing to this imbalance.

Inability

The foremost of the reason at the same time the only reason we don’t accept until we are exhaust of other possible reasons. On the first place there was a lack on some aspect in doing an action or in communication or in the way we deal things, otherwise why should something backfire on us ? So the prime reason is inability. This inability may be physical or lack of knowledge or lack of exposure. Inability is not some bad word, any improvement starts with the acceptance of inability. People think admitting inability as a disgrace or shame. In my opinion, there should be an awareness in people that it is the first step to learning. If we are all-able and great why do we suffer. So inability is not a disgrace it is a possibility where we can find ourselves the missing part !

False Self-Promotion

The word promotion today has crossed its limits. There is always a need to exhibit the value, without which the genuinity becomes a question. It is our privilege to promote ourselves but the catch is, on what way ? We should always be aware of statements we make on ourselves and on others. These statements are not just statements but reflects our ability, maturity and the depth we possess. False promotions will only lead to shame, because the very result of promotion is trust. If the claimed is false then the trust factor vanishes. There is also a flip side to it. We should be confident and bold enough to promote ourselves if we possess an able and genuine content, because if we don’t do so, it is like taking a beautifully painted canvas,nailing it straight on wall and calling it as wall hanging. That will only look like a literal hanging…lol! Not only that it looks terrible but it makes us think dumb on our own selves. It is like a false portrayal but this time to our own self.

These two factors occupy a large area in a person’s life. These factors has to be taken care in order for us to make our stance better and our balance more sustaining !