Aascharyanandha on Building Resilience

Life in todays world is a mix of ease and difficulty. Modern technologies have paved way for comfortability. This comfortability though comes with a cost which we ought to earn by professional means to sustain the lifestyle at the comfort level.

Does everything goes in harmony if we have enough funds to sustain our lifestyle ?

In reality even if we have enough money or other prevelages to sustain a certain level of lifestyle, the problem with self becomes more prominent day by day. More the comfort level, the more the question of identity and emotional validations comes into picture. This identity crisis and lack of emotional clarity makes us full of thoughts which keeps us awake and sad on various aspects of life. This emotional tiredness and unclear opinions on ones ownself takes toll on the self esteem and confidence levels. This forms a viscious cycle between unclear thoughts to inferiority complex. This inferiority complex disguises itself as identity crisis and as a step to solve the identity crisis people try to engage in active lifestyle forgetting the fact that it the inferiority complex they need to sort out. Active lifestyle only helps come out of our dormant lifestyle but doesnt address the underlying problem of inferiority. This inferiority stays as culprit generating every otther emotions which we most often connct to identity crisis and lack of social acceptance. In order to break this misconceptions and to create a strong self one has to build resilience. Inferiority complex thrives only when you believe you cant build yourself back after a failure. The very nature of human beings is to heal, which we always see in physical terms. A wound heals by itself, we just need to give some time and necessary support sameway even after failure we just need time and necessary elements to bring ourselves back. Shed the fear of failure and embrace resilience, believe in healing. Building resilience is not a one day task but on a continual basis from a small task if you embrace that efforts bring back results and success then eventually resilience will become a virtue. Start from small things, do not connect everyday small confusions to your inferiority rather start appreciating that you are capable of making a progress that yesterday. Afterall resilience is the human nature inferiority is not !